When you experience the pain of a broken heart, disappointment, or failure, do not let it disqualify you. Push back and push through it. Do not let the pain disqualify you and do not disqualify yourself. You are more than a conqueror through Him who loves you (see Romans 8:35-39). You can also pick up a copy of my book, "If God Has Not Disqualified you, Do Not Disqualify Yourself" and read it for yourself.
Blessings!